With age comes the need to want to settle down or at least have a stable relationship. But this will not happen if you don’t know how or where to meet a guy you would like.
If you’re sick and tired of attracting the wrong kind of guy, then it’s your lucky day to turn things around as we will give you some tips on how to get a boyfriend. Let’s get straight into business. We have listed some tried and tested strategies that will help you break your streak of bad luck and teach you how to get a serious guy a.k.a. boyfriend a.k.a “husband material!” Ready to meet a serious guy you like and nail him?
Here are the strategies you need…
#1. Change Your Looks
It is true when people say ‘your looks draw people to you,’ but keeping them is a whole different ball game. Most men are definitely moved by what they see. So dress in a way that lets Mr. Serious spot you easily.
Remember, for guys, you don’t have to look expensive for him to like you, it’s more about how your dress flatters your figure. Ladies, be sure to go decent and not trashy because trashy is a sure way to turn a good guy off in seconds. So to get the kind of guy you desire, you need to dress the part. Let your looks demand the attention of a guy who’s not looking for a fling but something more lasting.
#2. Visit New Places
If the places you have been visiting haven’t brought much luck, then it’s time to make room for new places. No one is asking you to compromise your values just to meet guys, but there are more places in the world to meet good guys than the regular spots like clubs, restaurants, cinemas, church.
How about art shows, libraries, conferences, parks… there are a host of places you are yet to visit in your city. If a serious guy is what you’re targeting, then you need to be willing to enlarge your territory or better put, you need to cast your fishing net wider. Get going girls!
#3. Pick Up a New Hobby
Intelligent men are naturally attracted to like-minded ladies. A woman who possesses a respectable level of intellect is any man’s dream come true. It shows your virtuousness and assures him that you’re someone he can always count on. Trust me, no man wants a liability. He wants an asset! So be that asset.
Not sure how to show your intellective or creative side? Occupy your time with a craft or an interest to keep you mentally activated and easy to engage with. What is that thing you love to do? Put your heart to it. Let him see that you are both responsible and industrious.
#4. Put Yourself Out There
Some women wear their emotions on their sleeves. They have been hurt one too many times and automatically hold back when an opportunity presents itself and end up losing out on a really good guy. What are you really afraid of? Every failed relationship or encounter has been an opportunity to learn something new and get it right next time. It’s time to pull off that past, stop wearing it about! Put yourself out there! Meet new people and give them a chance. It will never work if you do not allow it to. There is definitely someone out there looking for everything you are. So if you do not put yourself out there, how would you be found?
#5. Be Graceful
Men are generally attracted to confident ladies. Ladies who can hold their own in any setting. If graceful does not define you, then you will need to learn the art of poise. It starts with your carriage. How you walk; how you talk; how you act; and even how you stand. The truth is, how you see yourself is how people will see you.
If you see yourself as beautiful and confident; when you dress and act the part, people will buy into it. Let every step you take, the way you stand tall and express yourself exude grace. This will definitely attract like-minded guys. However, remember not to cross over to the “over-confident” zone as that can be a total put off for men.
On a side note, singer Lynxxx (featured photo) fits our “serious guy” title. He’s been singing a very different tune on his Instagram page lately.
Photo credit: Lynxxx’s Instagram
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