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atisfaction is an important thing during intimacy. However, research has found that pleasure for women can be a bit tricky. For some women to reach a climax, extra attention may be required and this has birthed wittiness in the bedroom, resulting in new intimacy techniques such as “the shallowing technique.”
What is the shallowing technique?
The shallowing technique involves pleasuring your woman through light penetration with just the tip of your penis, while playfully adding the tongue, fingers, or any sexual toys you decide to use. This technique offers intense pleasure due to how the vagina is structured at the entrance, thus, stimulating the specific nerves that allow your woman to feel bliss. This technique also requires you to play around to discover what is right for your partner (or yourself if you’re masturbating). By understanding how your lady’s body works and how it responds to pleasure, the climax resulting from this technique is often longer and stronger.
How to try the shallowing technique
To incorporate the swallowing technique into your bedroom escapades, here are some tips to consider:
- Learn how to do foreplay: Before you begin, your partner needs to be prepared for any sexual activity, so get busy with foreplay. Take your time to kiss and worship her body. You can add massages or any kinky ideas you have in mind that will make her eager.
- Make sure she is wet: Foreplay gets her wet and ready for the penetration. Therefore, ensure she is adequately wet to avoid injuries or tears. Her wetness adds to her pleasure as it ensures proper lubrication before intercourse.
- Explore her vagina: Learn what makes her hot by exploring the pleasure points of her vagina. For instance, gently massage places like her vulva (it’s one of a woman’s most sensitive spots) as this will help maximize her pleasure.
- Penetrate lightly: Use your penis to penetrate lightly, just at a shallow depth, with thrusts near the vaginal opening. This, coupled with fingering her clitoris, will drive you both to the edge.
- Learn to have fun: Sexual intimacy is not a do-or-die affair, it’s something that’s supposed to be deeply satisfying. Therefore, learn to have fun with it. Try to be spontaneous as you explore what gives you and your woman the most kick. Also, while practicing the shallowing technique, don’t beat yourself up if you go too deep. It’s about giving her pleasure while attaining yours.
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