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verytime Jada Pinkett Smith pops up on the internet, the entire place goes berserk. These reactions escalated after the internet got wind of her entanglement with singer, August Alsina and of course, Will Smith’s infamous Oscar slap on account of Chris Rock’s GI Jane joke directed at her. Recently, the Red Table Talk co-host has been publicizing her new book “Worthy,” letting the public in on her healing journey, and being typical Jada, she’s spilling eyebrow-raising tea.
As the much-anticipated memoir by Jada Pinkett Smith hits the shelves, readers and fans are in for a deeply personal and quiet journey through the life of this remarkable actress, producer, and philanthropist. In Worthy, Pinkett-Smith takes us on a rollercoaster ride through her life –shedding light on her early struggles, her unconventional path to stardom, her complex relationships, and the personal battles she had to overcome. While there’s so much the internet has to say about the star, there’s no denying her resilience, uniqueness, and unapologetic authenticity.
Here are ten remarkable revelations from Jada Pinkett Smith’s memoir…
#1. A turbulent beginning
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Jada Pinkett Smith’s life started amid adversity as she was born to parents battling addiction. Her challenging upbringing forced her to navigate the world with her maternal grandmother and mother; all while her father stayed absent and violent. This lack of a healthy foundation left its mark, influencing her perception of herself and her early struggles with boundaries and relationships.
#2. A dark turn to survive
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To escape the harsh realities of her environment, Jada turned to selling drugs as a teenager. In the book, she discloses how growing up, the drug dealers were seen as successful, and her mother’s struggles left their home in disarray. Her journey to financial freedom led her into dangerous territory and sometimes, violence. During an interview on the book, she stated: “That was my solution at that particular time to survive. And it helped me. But it put me into a lot of danger and I hurt a lot of people along the way.”
#3. A prenup-free promise
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Jada and Will Smith’s love story is the stuff of Hollywood legend, and their marriage has been a subject of interest. They got married in 1997 without a prenuptial agreement, a testament to their commitment to one another. Jada revealed they both assured themselves that no matter what happened, they were going to figure it out — the rationale behind ignoring a prenup. Jada’s recounting of their modest, heartfelt ceremony in Will’s mother’s backyard is a powerful reminder of the depth of connection they share
#4. A secret separation
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One of the biggest revelations from Jada Pinkett-Smith’s memoir is her and Will’s secret separation. In 2016, the couple found their marriage in turmoil, leading to a period of separation. The strain on their relationship was due to various factors, causing them to question the future of their union. However, Jada says that she and Will are committed to working through their issues to ensure they ultimately prevail.
Following the revelation, the majority of the internet has been clamoring for a divorce. The hate for Jada is wild, and it seems the woman is highly misunderstood. Imagine revealing your separation to the world, yet made to feel like you’re holding your partner in captivity and need to set him “free.” Numerous bloggers have jumped on this trend, creating a let-Will-Smith-go parade.
#5. An unexpected declaration
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The 2022 Oscars witnessed a controversial moment that took Jada by surprise (or so she claimed), when Will publicly referred to her as his wife after slapping Chris Rock. According to her, she was shocked as she and Will hadn’t called each other husband and wife in a long time. “I’m like, ‘What is going on right now? Keep my wife’s name out of your mouth?’ I’m really worried for Will because I don’t know what’s going on,” she said.
But why are netizens so mad? They claim that the way she talks about Will Smith leaves nothing to the imagination. It can almost be considered disrespectful. The “internet in-laws” claim that if she’s so worried about her partner, that information has no business wiggling itself into her book press tours. But again, that’s Jada and how she rolls. If it’s not extra, she’s not in.
#6. When reality struck
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The memoir reveals that Jada initially thought Will’s actions at the Oscars were part of an act or a skit. She was astounded by the realness of the situation when Will returned to his seat, signaling the intensity of their emotions. It shows that no matter how much the world hates these two, they have a bond stronger than perception.
It’s true that we tend to hate what we don’t understand, but should we be trying so hard to grasp something outside our scope? Yes, the information is always in our faces, thanks to the spill-it-all shows, but I’m curious about how these two kept it going in a disloyal and impatient place like Hollywood.
#7. An apology unaccepted
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After the incident, Chris Rock tried to apologize to Jada. However, Jada found it hard to accept his apology because she was still concerned about Will, and the situation reminded her of past problems. Furthermore, the book suggests that considering Rock is known for his random controversial statements, one would wonder if this apology wasn’t a PR damage control.
#8. Chris Rock and Jada
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Jada Pinkett-Smith’s memoir revealed intriguing information about Chris Rock. Jada claims that during a period of divorce rumors between her and Will, Rock allegedly asked her out, thinking she was available. The misunderstanding was swiftly clarified, with her telling him the rumors were false. Hence, leading to an apology and unexpected twists in their friendship. Chris Rock has since asked her to keep him out of the memoir/book tour.
#9. The soulmate: Tupac
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Twenty-seven years later, our boy Shakur is still making the headlines. In Jada Pinkett-Smith’s memoir, she delves into her deep, yet platonic bond with the late iconic rapper, Tupac Shakur. She describes it as a “friendship love chemistry” and calls him her “soulmate.” She revealed he also struggled with Alopecia and kept it quiet because, at the time, there was no freedom to speak about these things. According to the actress, their friendship transcended conventional relationships when he proposed during his time at Rikers Island. But still, there was no romantic chemistry between them.
This is where the Black community sought to have Jada’s head on a platter. “You gon’ straight up lie against the dead because he can’t defend this?” said an Instagram user. “This is pure Jada math because the time coincides with him being in another relationship,” said an X user. “Delulu is the new Solulu,” another internet user fired back. I guess we will never know.
#10. Overcoming the dark times
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Jada Pinkett-Smith’s memoir doesn’t shy away from her darkest moments. She reveals that in her 40s, she grappled with suicidal ideation, spotlighting a profound emotional struggle. “When I turned 40, I was in so much pain. I couldn’t figure a way out besides death. So I made a plan. I started looking for places and cliffs where I could have an accident because I didn’t want my kids to think their mother had committed suicide,” she said. Her encounter with Ayahuasca proved transformative, helping her develop an intimate relationship with herself and dispelling the dark thoughts.
In “Worthy,” Jada Pinkett Smith invites readers to explore the intricate layers of her life, both the stuff you’ve always known and the ones you think you know. It also celebrates her triumphs and acknowledges her tribulations. Like it or not, Jada’s story is an inspiring reminder that no matter where we come from, we all have the power to shape our destinies. “Worthy” is a must-read for those seeking inspiration, self-discovery, the full tea, and an authentic glimpse into the life of a remarkable woman.
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