Media personality Toke Makinwa dishes out serious advice to the ladies, especially those who constantly act immature childish in relationships. This week’s vlog has Toke trying to clarify that she’s not anti-men while serving up candid talk to her womenfolk! She wants women to be more mature in their relationships.
Toke even admits she’s just as guilty in some of the things she says women do that are not mature and harmful to their relationships.
How to be mature in relationships…
#1. Stop crying wolf
It’s ok to say you need some space. Stop threatening him with a breakup at every given instance. Stop trying to steer the wheels of power. By always threatening your man, one day, he will take your empty threats for real and move on.
#2. Saying “I’m fine” when you’re not
Knowing how to explain yourself will prevent you from always sounding like a spoilt child. Explain your feelings and use your words to avoid using sign languages at every given point in time. He can’t read your mind or body language because he’s not a magician.
#3. Involving friends and family members in fights
When you involve your friends and family members in everything about your relationship, they end up holding grudges against your partner even after you and your partner have reconciled. Fights between couples are always done in love, but your friends and families never see it that way. It is best to have one mature friend you can confide in when it comes to relationships.
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